Top 9 Texting Tips You Should Never Ignore When Flirting Online With A Trans

You�ve finally hit the web in your quest to find the love of your life. Everything else has been disappointing. You�ve got your hopes high this time around. Yours is a quest like no other. You�re giving it your all this time. So you go online, set up your profile and wait to connect with likeminded people � the love-struck, the romantics, the lonely seeking love � you know your kind. You what you�re looking for.  Just so you�re clear, you don�t really mind sexual orientation. You�re particularly keen on transgendered people. Are there rules you should follow? Are there tips that can make you standout? Like any other form of interaction, there are rules � unwritten norms so to speak. Observe them and you�re good to go. Read on to learn more.

Profile Data

What do you look at immediately you initiate a contact with a prospect online? The profile � that�s a no brainer. It is the one thing that can give you a sneak peek into a prospect�s life. You can tell from their profile what ticks them off and what doesn�t. From the photos uploaded, you can gauge how attractive a prospect is. You know the drill. You know how important the profile is.

But what happens where you meet a prospect � one you seem to get along with so well but who happens to have the vaguest profile you�ve ever seen? Well, for starters, that�s one red flag you shouldn�t ignore. Request for a photograph. Gauge how well they respond to your request. You need to see who you�re chatting with. The chats may feel good at first, but the whole thing will most likely end in tatters and a possible heartbreak if one of the parties involved is unwilling to share vital details on their profile or at least DM you.

Prejudice

Be courteous. Show respect irrespective of race, religion or even political views. Now this is one area many people often ignore. It is sad because things like political alignment with a prospect can make it easy for you to get along. It�d help too if you share the same religious views. This isn�t a thumb rule though. If you�re willing to compromise with a prospect you share little social views with, then go for it. However, head for the hills the moment you notice any kind of unhealthy, hate fuelled and misinformed prejudice. In simple words, do not tolerate any form of hate grounded on race, religion, politics and anything along those lines. You could very well end up being the crying victim at the end of it all.

Answers

Answer with precision but with as much honesty as you can. Expect the same from your prospect. Borrow a leaf from how travestis Madrid and travestis Barcelona respond when you hit them up online. Many of them hardly ever give vague answers. You ask, they respond. Do exactly the same thing. Then while at it, avoid by all means prospects who vaguely. Once you initiate contact, be quick to ask the basics. What they do, what are their intentions online, do they want something serious or on a quick lay? You can then gradually proceed to the hard stuff kind of questions - views on children, religion, intimacy and such kind of things. You can tell as you chat vital factors like intent. If for instance you tell a prospect isn�t sincere about their intent, bail out before you get hurt. This is important because many people who claim to have a soft spot for the transgendered community often want to just experiment.

Compliments

Picture this. You match with an online prospect. You initiate a chat. Interestingly, you only have one profile photo. The prospect then proceeds to complement you, telling you how sexy you are. You savour the moment for a while then before you know it, pet names come calling with even more complements. There�s a �Hi sweetheart� every other hour followed my several �I miss you already texts�. �Is this too good to be true?� You ask yourself. Well, here�s some bad news for you. Yes, it�s too good to be true!...And yes, run for the hills before things take a nosedive quickly.

There�s nothing wrong with complimenting. Many people love it. Compliment escorts Spain or pretty much anywhere in the world and they�ll swoon over you. Too much of it especially from someone you hardly know exudes some kind of sinister motive.

Money

Money is and will always be a sensitive issues. It is in fact, more sensitive the moment it is discussed in the confines of a relationship. With that in mind, do not for any reason disclose to a prospect the much you make. Do not also send money to someone you�ve never met before.

Note that it is one thing to send money where you feel like you�re helping out a little. It is another thing to send money to either win affection or prove that you are indeed generous or that you in fact, love the recipient. The rule is simple here � just don�t send money. It doesn�t matter how much you�ve been promised. It doesn�t matter if the recipient will flee if you refuse to send it or has actually threated to cut communication. The moment a prospect requests for money or any of your material possessions, run. Cut off the prospect and end whatever you may have started immediately.

Occupation

You don�t have to know right away what your prospect does for a living. Like already mentioned though, it is important for you to know later on as chemistry picks up. If you�re eventually serious about dating, then yes, you should ask your prospect what they do for a living. This is important especially if you had made it clear that your perfect match is one who�s financially independent. The last thing you want to experience in a relationship is ending up with someone who turns out to be a burden.

A week or two down the line after talking, bring up the question. Treat any dodgy tendency as a red flag. Be direct too and precise with the questions you ask. Note though, that you are not bound to disclose how much you earn or the businesses you own. If you�re into business, a simple line along �I am a businessperson dealing with xyz� should suffice.

Criminal Tendencies

This may sound strange but criminals often give hints of what they�re into or sometimes what they�re about to do. It could be something not so serious - a misdemeanour so to speak like shoplifting. It could also be something as serious � a felony like identity theft. Whatever it is, cut links with anyone you�re flirting with online the moment you suspect they�re criminals. More often than not, ardent criminals seek new and gullible accomplices through dating apps. What then follows is a series of chat to lure victims and recruit them into criminal activities as accomplices.

Here�s the thing. If a prospect insists on anything you�re not comfortable with, leave them. Better yet, report any suspicious activity. You could for instance, notice a prospect using a card with a name you suspect isn�t theirs. You may happen to spot it again�then again and again�you�re clearly dealing with a criminal. Worse yet, you�re getting pampered from proceeds of crime, a perk that may look and sound fun but can potentially get you in trouble.

Extreme Hobbies

People find solace, comfort and happiness in weird things. Take sex for instance. There are people who cannot enjoy sex if the element of pain lacks. You know the clique � BDSM adherents. There�s really nothing wrong with activities as long as they involve two consenting adults. Things change though when a prospect insists that you should try something extreme like bondage sex even though you�ve already made it clear that you�re into such activities. Drop such prospects without thinking twice.

Note that BDSM is just but an example of an extreme hobby. There are course, several other extreme activities that aren�t just extreme but also life threatening. Whatever it is, do not involve yourself if you have doubts especially for your safety. No should be enough for any sane prospect.

The Ex- Factor

Who doesn�t have a past? You know � that one ex you never truly forgot. But it�s life and as much as you struggle with forgetting and individual, you have no choice but to forget. You just shouldn�t be obsessed especially if the relationship ended years ago. You may � and this happens more than you probably know � meet a prospect online still reeling over an ex. They talk about the ex all the time. You notice pretty soon that they never healed � they�re obsessed. This can only mean one thing � you�re dealing with a traumatized person. It could also very well mean you�re about to be used as a rebound. Ask yourself what would happen if you were to end the relationship. Chances are, the prospect would turn suicidal or blame you for everything wrong in their life.

That prospect who never shuts about their ex? Forget about them. As for you, really don�t have to talk about your ex unless it is very necessary and relevant to whatever you talking about.

Wrap Up

Flirting online isn�t easy. It calls for some wits. You chat with a stranger hoping for the best. There are no written rules which makes the whole exercise even harder. With all the aforementioned tips though, you should have an easy time flirting online. All the best.

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