Why are normal guys into Transsexuals?

The idea seems to bug them a lot…..I get so many emails and messages from men who are like “I dont know why I like Tgirls but they turn me on so much….”. Its almost like they cant comprehend their own feelings.

The way I see it, theres a few big reasons…

1) Guys who love cock but feel its not “gay” as long as it belongs to the body of a transsexual….or someone who generally looks and acts female. Its an excuse for themselves to do or fantasise about something that would otherwise register as totally homosexual in their mind.

2) A huge majority of Tgirls dress themselves up in outfits and styles that no self-respecting genetic girl would ever wear. They shape their shoes, clothes, makeup and hair around a sexualised portrayal of a female……or place specific emphasis on an item of clothing that has its own sexual connotations. Therefore other guys find it very easy to spot these things and get turned on by it.

3) Powerplay and control. Loads of guys obviously have the need to exert a little dominance…..and what better way to make yourself feel like more of a man, than to be with someone who is doing their best to be completely feminine in looks and behaviour. Its probably a common misconception that most transsexuals are weak-willed and passive…..from my experience theyre typically more fiesty after all the shit theyve had to endure.

4) Transsexuals are seen as easy, and probably have higher sex drives than women. Id say this is mostly true. Tgirls inevitably still have the mind of a (former) male - and the average male still obsesses over sex a hell of a lot more than a woman does! You also have to consider that loads of so-called trans people are just doing it for sex anyway…..so of course guys are gonna weigh up the obvious quick fuck-option. No wonder most transsexuals find it hard to find genuine partners.

5) Taboo and fetish. Transsexuals have long been objectified by the porn industry….how often has a guy emailed me and said “Ive always wanted to fuck a tranny” - as if we’re all the same, rather than individuals?! A portion of people are going to find you sexually attractive if you can easily be pigeon-holed into a category, especially one which is not commonly seen as accepted in society. People want what they know they should not have.

6) This I find to be….rarer….but I find a lot of Tgirls are genuinely easier to get on with than girls. Think about it this way - we dont usually have the same mood swings, for a start. We probably like playing computer games, watching action movies, or talking about any of the typically male-orientated topics that a normal girl would find boring. I think that many transsexual admirers just find it much more interesting to talk to a “girl” who shares interests or common ground with them. Although this factor is typically reserved for someone who isnt just a “I want to fuck trannys” type….

Im probably guilty of fetish-izing myself….I probably wouldnt wear half of the things I do today unless they were designed to make me look outrageously sexy. I just think a lot of guys need to be a bit more honest with themselves and the reasons why they seek transsexuals…..if you want a quick fuck - theres places you can go to get that. But dont count on the trannys you meet being any more intelligent and endearing than you are.

The morale of the story? Stop seeing Transsexuals as a group of sex objects….

Author: Zara Kane

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